“In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array; but (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works.” – 1 Timothy 2:9–10 KJV
Fashion is dynamic, and so must you be. However, the scriptures are clear on the principles and thoughts that should guide your appearance.
When it comes to dressing and appearance, the scripture has more to say to women of faith than to men.
I acknowledge that in this world of rapidly changing trends where people are seeking freedom of expression, the child of God could be trapped. Let’s discuss a few guidelines to look trendy but not seductive and ungodly. Remember:
“All things are lawful, but not all things are expedient and appropriate. All things are lawful for me, but all things are not expedient: all things are lawful for me, but all things edify not.” – 1 Corinthians 10:23 KJV
Under grace, all things are lawful, but not all things are expedient or edifying. Before you step out, ask whether your appearance will edify those who encounter you. Be sure that your choice of clothes and appearance edifies faith and godliness. Always focus on choosing clothes and accessories that are appropriate for the occasion.
- Dress to be addressed, not to kill: A decent woman will choose clothes and accessories that project her as decent, not seductive. Dress to be honored, not to attract or seduce.
- Your clothes and accessories must protect you from the weather: It’s offensive to wear skimpy clothes and then try to cover your nakedness with a handbag or face towel. Wear clothes that adequately cover and protect you.
- Dress to be identified: When you meet a police officer going to work, their clothes identify them; think of nurses, firefighters, soldiers, bankers, pastors, etc. Why would you want to wear the clothes of a harlot when you are not one? Are there clothes for harlots? Yes! How can you tell? Watch movies. At least, even ungodly scriptwriters know how to portray a harlot. “And, behold, there met him a woman with the attire of an harlot, and subtil of heart.” – Proverbs 7:10 KJV There is a story in the Bible of a man named Judah who slept with his own daughter-in-law because she disguised herself with the clothes and accessories of a harlot.
- Choose clothes and accessories that enhance your looks, but don’t spend your fortunes on them: The scriptures exhort women to choose clothes and accessories that adorn them. Step out with clothes that adorn you, but don’t break the bank.
- Deliberately dress as an act of worship: Dress as an act of worship; spirits are attracted to sights, symbols, sounds, smells, and sacrifices.
Stay blessed.
