I want to share a simple key that makes marriages work and last longer. The simple key is the truth that
All things being equal a man won’t leave what he can’t easily replace.
If you want your marriage to last, then groom and develop yourself into that bride, wife, or woman that can’t easily be replaced. Just become what other women are not and you will enjoy lasting marriage.
Proverbs 31:29 KJV — Many daughters have done virtuously, But thou excellest them all.
The Book of Titus give us the simple secrets to do what most other women don’t do
Titus 2:4-5 KJV — that they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, [5] to be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.
BE SOBER, DON’T DRINK NOR BE DISILLUSIONED!
Every young woman who drinks should not be trusted. The first thing your husband or suitor expects of you is being sober. Though some women don’t drink, they are drunk with nonsense. You can’t quarrel with a lover because of a gift he gave you on your birthday. Whether he gave you a hair net or a G-wagon; is not the issue. My mother doesn’t know her date of birth, but married my father for 62 years; think! Don’t buy pressure for your fiancee or husband.
LOVE YOUR HUSBAND!
Respect your husband, honour him, welcome him home with a smile; let him feel like you are happy to see him. There is nothing attractive as a woman who laughs at your jokes, welcomes you to her house with a smile, and laughs at your statement. Never melts the heart of a man like finding a string woman submitting to him. Only a bully wants a doormat for a wife; every sane man finds a strong woman who submits to him attractive.
LOVE YOUR CHILDREN:
This is another thing most women don’t do. Most women don’t have time for their children. They don’t bathe and dress them for school, they don’t prepare their meals on time, they don’t train them well. Most women lately are so busy that, they can leave their children for a whole weekend attending parties and funerals.
BE DISCREET:
Many decisions in life will be between shades of grey; it won’t be black and white. You will need to be very discreet as a woman to stand out and demonstrate virtue. If you really want to stand out, then you must be careful and prudent in speech and actions. This is an important quality that you must hold and develop.
BE CHASTE:
Chastity is the main ingredient for keeping faith and sexual purity. The greater the body count and the more men you have been with in the past, the higher the chance of being curious and likely to cheat in a relationship. Marriage may not be as hot and adventurous as sleeping around; hence a chaste woman is likely to remain faithful to her husband. Whether you have been with tens or hundreds, being chaste is a quality most women don’t have and it sets you apart
BE A GOOD HOME MANAGER, AND STAY HOME:
This is one other thing most women lately don’t do. You will stand out if you acquire some home management skills, and form the habit of staying home, when you are not at work. Mostly a woman who likes outings is considered as strange. You get exposed in scenarios that could set you up for infidelity.
BE GOOD and OBEDIENT TO YOUR OWN HUSBAND
Need I say more about this? You husband will love and stay when he perceives that you are good and obedient to him.
Stay blessed
