I want to share about the seven top secrets to keep the devil out of your marraige:
[Hebrews 13:4-6 KJV] “Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee. So that we may boldly say, The Lord is my helper, and I will not fear What man shall do unto me.“
Mutual love and recognition
You must love each other and mutually recognise and introduce each other as such. If the person is you husband, introduce him as your husband; if he is your boo, introduce him as you boo; if he is your fiance(e), introduce him or her as such. Adam recognised Eve as bone of his bone and flesh if his flesh; and Eve acknowledged it so both in Adam’s presence and absence.
For prospective suitors and barchelors, marry and settle down with someone you can both love and recognise both privately and publicly.
Mutual respect and empathy
One of the key problems of modern marriages is selfishness and past feeling. Many marriages fail because the couples are selfish and past feeling.
You must marry and settle down with someone you can respect and empathise with. Many of us open the door for the devil to come in because we can’t even empathise with our spouses. I have seen people hurt their spouses without mercy or compassion. They hurt each other as though they were dealing with a piece of wood. Selfishness is the bane of modern marriages.
Avoid comparison; your marriage or relationship is unique
Every marriage and relationship is unique in its characteristics, strengths, and weaknesses. Many marriages and relationship will work perfectly alright if the couple would focus on developing and enjoying their unique marriage.
Your partner may not celebrate you on social media but he or she respects and values you; and that is okay. Your partner may not buy you roses and ice cream but he does the dishes, or washes your clothes; and that is perfectly okay. Your partner may not sit out with you but he returns home after work; and that is perfectly okay. Learn to study the uniqueness of your relationship, develop and enjoy it.
Avoid the stereotypes; that a man must call a woman; but anybody can say good morning.
Keep the marriage undefiled and active
A cold marriage bed creates a leeway for the devil to take advantage of your lack of self control.
Keep the body count low if not possible to keep it at one.
Multiple serial sexual partner leads to diseases (cervical cancer, STIs); and beyond that, it also leads to confusion, and soul ties. Many young couples are confused, their bodies are thrown into a state of confusion. The body does not know whether to respond to Gideon, Gordon, Godwin, or George.
A high body count leads to perversion. Mostly you would have tried so many things such that normal things don’t satisfy you any more. You begin to seek various perversions.
Stay blessed!
